Stephanie Madrid | Healing After Betrayal on Instagram: "Why do people keep arguing this? Yes the cheater is 100% responsible for betraying his commitment. But just because the trash came from inside the house doesn’t mean the flies that come in aren’t just as nasty. This isn’t about choosing sides. It’s called dual accountability. In every other situation where two people cause harm (a crime, a scam, a lie) they both face consequences. But when it comes to infidelity, somehow the person who wil